Piano Lessons by the Numbers: Who Starts, Who Sticks With It, and Why

Piano is still the instrument most people say they want to play. But wanting to play and actually sticking with lessons are two different things. We dug into the research on enrollment, starting age, and dropout patterns. We wanted to see what the data shows, not just what feels true after years of teaching. Find the rest of this series in our full Music Education Research hub, alongside our broader music education statistics. Our own piano and keyboard program page has our lesson formats and age ranges.

Piano Still Tops the List of Instruments People Want to Play

Piano is still the instrument most Americans say they’ve actually played. A 2022 US survey of 2,000 people found this ranking:

Most-played instruments, US adults (2022 survey)
Instrument Share who had played it
Piano/keyboard 27%
Acoustic guitar 20%
Violin 19%
Bar chart: piano 27 percent, acoustic guitar 20 percent, violin 19 percent, share of Americans who have played each instrument.
Source: 2022 US survey of 2,000 people, including 1,200 who had played an instrument.

82 percent of parents in the same survey said it matters for their child to learn an instrument. But parents and kids don’t always agree on which one:

Parents’ top picks for their kids vs. kids’ own top pick (same 2022 survey)
Choice Share
Parents’ pick: piano 18%
Parents’ pick: drums 17%
Parents’ pick: violin 16%
Kids’ own top pick: electric guitar 22%

If your child is torn between piano and guitar, that gap is worth keeping in mind. Let your child have some say in the choice. Even if piano is the stronger foundation instrument, having a say helps kids stay motivated.

The Age Most Students Actually Start

So when do most people actually begin? A 2022 US poll of adults who had played an instrument found this spread:

Age started playing an instrument, US adults (2022 poll)
Starting age Share
5 or younger 9%
6 to 10 48%
11 to 17 33%
18 or older 9%

There’s no single correct starting age. The middle of elementary school is where most people begin. That lines up with what we see at our own studios. Most families enroll once a child can read and sit through a 30 or 45 minute lesson. That’s why our private lessons at Lawrence Park and St. Clair West (Oakwood/Conway) start at age 5.

What Happens After the First Lesson: Retention Data From a Canadian Piano Study

The best data on piano retention comes from a 2017 Canadian study. It compared students still taking lessons against students who had quit in the past year. Both groups started piano at almost the same age. The gap showed up later, in how much progress they made:

Piano progress: students who kept going vs. students who quit (2017 Canadian study)
Kept going Quit
Group size 153 students 55 students
Average starting age 6.27 6.96
Years of lessons 4.76 4.93
Grade level reached Level 4 Level 2
Pace (grade levels/year) 0.73 0.45

The dropout group quit around age 12, the classic pre-teen dropout age. Here’s what stands out: both groups rated their own piano skill about the same, somewhat above average. The real split was in actual progress, not self-confidence. Quitting usually isn’t a child deciding they’re bad at music. It’s more often about progress falling short of what they hoped for.

What Actually Predicts Whether a Student Keeps Going

The same study looked at what else separated the two groups. Grades at school, as rated by parents, made no real difference. Home environment did matter: moms of kids who kept going were more likely to hold professional jobs and have more years of schooling than moms of kids who quit. Other research cited in the study found the share of boys still taking piano lessons dropped sharply with age: from 33.6 percent at age 9 to just 9.8 percent by age 17.

None of this means one family situation guarantees a dropout. It means two things matter: how fast a child sees progress, and how much support they get at home. That’s what we tell parents at enrollment. Showing interest in what your child is working on matters more than how much you know about music yourself.

Who’s Sitting at the Piano as an Adult

Piano isn’t just a childhood pursuit. Here’s what the same 2022 US survey found about adults:

Adults over 65 were more likely than any other age group to say they had learned piano — 37 percent.

60 percent of everyone who had played piano learned through formal lessons, not on their own. Among people who quit an instrument, 48 percent of former piano students said they regretted stopping, a high number compared to other instruments in the survey. If you tried piano as a kid and gave it up, you’re in good company. We hear that regret often from parents who sign up their own kids partly for this reason. Adult students make up a real share of who walks through our doors, not just children. The same steady practice that helps a child improve works just as well once you’re older.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the best age to start piano lessons?

Most people start piano between ages 6 and 10. Starting earlier or later is common too. Being ready matters more than a birthday. Our private lessons at Lawrence Park and St. Clair West (Oakwood/Conway) start at age 5, once a child can sit through a lesson and start reading simple notes.

Why do so many kids quit piano around age 12?

A study of Canadian piano students found the average dropout age was 12. Kids who quit were moving through skill levels about half as fast as kids who kept going. Slow progress, not a lack of interest, seems to be the main reason.

Does it matter if a parent doesn’t play piano themselves?

Not directly. A Canadian study found a parent’s own music skill wasn’t the deciding factor. What mattered was support at home and steady progress. Any parent can help with both, even with zero music background.

Is piano still worth learning compared to guitar or other instruments?

Survey data ranks piano as the most-played instrument among adults, ahead of guitar and violin. It’s also the instrument most non-players wish they’d learned. That doesn’t make it right for every child. But it’s a strong starting point for skills that carry over to other instruments, including our guitar lessons statistics.

Piano Lessons at ABC Academy of Music

We’ve watched these patterns play out in our own studios for over two decades, across Lawrence Park, St. Clair West (Oakwood/Conway), Dufferin Grove, and Brampton. Families often start their youngest kids in Music Together®, our program for ages 0 to 3, which runs at all of our locations. Music Together is a registered trademark of Music Together LLC. ABC Academy of Music is an authorized Music Together center. From there, kids move into Rhythm Kids for ages 4 to 7. Then into private piano lessons at 5 and up, offered at our Lawrence Park and St. Clair West (Oakwood/Conway) studios.

The research is clear: steady, visible progress keeps students engaged. That’s why our private lessons at those studios are built around regular, trackable goals, not open-ended practice. Wondering if now is the right time to start, or what lessons cost? Our rates and payment page lays out pricing by lesson length. You can also reach out through our contact page and we’ll help you find the right starting point, for your child or for you.

SOURCES:

  1. Newsweek, “Here Are the Top 10 Most Popular Instruments to Play,” Newsweek, 2023, https://www.newsweek.com/here-are-top-10-most-popular-instruments-play-1717696
  2. YouGov, “Younger Americans are increasingly exposed to playing music and a wider range of instruments,” YouGov, 2022, https://today.yougov.com/society/articles/43512-young-americans-increasingly-exposed-music
  3. Karen Gerelus, Gilles Comeau, and Mikael Swirp, “Predictors of Piano Student Dropouts,” Intersections, vol. 37, no. 2, 2017, https://piano.uottawa.ca/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/36.-Gerelus-et-al_Dropouts-2017.pdf